As a professional Femdom, I’m not big on contraints, or being put into boxes. Except in a literal sense, because I would definitely enjoy putting you into a box, as a sex thing. The whole reason I love kink so deeply, is that it has taught me so much about myself through the exploration of things that are deemed shameful or dirty. The freedom to imagine a different way of life than what society tells us is available.

Sanctuary was an unexpected find in my Hulu Halloween recommendations sandwiched between traditional horror movies. It's billed as a psychological thriller, though I would hardly consider it that, but maybe vanilla people are really easily frightened. It does defy easy categorization, effortlessly genre-hopping to meld into what I can only describe as a “psychosexual screwball rom-com”.

She styles herself “equal parts curvy and pervy.” And – for what it’s worth – we second both! In addition, she’s quite the conversationalist. So, prepare for a wide-ranging discussion – and, yes, a few doses of “mindfuckery” along the way. If you’re being honest, you wouldn’t have it any other way. Just, whatever you do, don’t call her “Goddess”!

Thanks for joining us for our sex worker interview series, 'A Tryst With...' We're joined by New York Dominatrix Zoey Belladonna to talk femdom, boundaries, and feeling powerful. What has your path looked like on your path to where you are now as a FemDom? I came into the industry pre backpage, twitter, eros etc. I started out in the Craigslist Adult Gigs picking out the funniest and most unique one-offs I could find. It was a wild west corner of the internet once upon a time.