• I cover the cost of incall for appointments 3hrs+.

    I generally hold my sessions in upscale hotels or private apartments.

    I prefer to host as it allows me time before our date to prepare the space and setup my equipment. I do have access to a dungeon in New Orleans and have a network of rentals in other cities if you so desire.

    You are always welcome to book a luxury suite with a soaking tub for our date should you wish to spoil me.

    On rare occasions I may ask you to cover the cost of my incall/hotel: blackout dates, FMTY’s, special location requests, etc.

  • I want to see people who are excited to see me. I want to see people who are attracted to me and are excited to experience my expertise and unique approach to kink. I enjoy enthusiastic, communicative, generous, and open-minded people of all types.

    Signs we might not be a great fit:

    • If you are looking for a kink dispenser to follow a very specific script.

    • You are unable to communicate what you want. Newbies are enthusiastically welcomed, but I need you to be able to communicate some idea of what you want or are curious about.

    • I generally do not get along well with Hobbyist types, menus, checklists, or clockwatchers.

    • If you seek heavy pain play or otherwise heavy BDSM activities, I am not the provider for you! I am mostly uninterested in causing physical pain.
      I do on occasion enjoy cbt, impact play, electro play, and mummification.
      I am happy to recommend a friend, or bring one along so that you can have your cake and get beaten too.

    • If you expect a stereotypical Dungeon Dominatrix experience, we might not be a great fit. My approach is very sensual, slow, intimate, and relies heavily on connection, close body contact, and cuddling.

    • If you are unable to move past hangups or be vulnerable with me, I suggest you come back after some inner work.

  • Absolutely. I’m not really interested pain either.

  • I highly recommend subscribing to my newsletter! You get advance notice of all my tour dates, pre-booking incentives, and exclusive media. Make sure to check your spam or promotions folder if you haven’t seen anything after signup.

    You can also find my up to date travel plans by checking my Tryst profile or my calendar.

  • I am a proud switch and love getting in touch with my submissive side. That said, this is something I only occasionally offer, on a case by case basis and only to highly verified, trusted clients. This is not available to new suitors.

  • Absolutely! I really appreciate communication and engagement around what you need and what your limits are for our time together. Knowing how big the sandbox is and what toys are welcome allows my expansive creativity to shine!

    If you have a specific toy, outfit, or prop request that I don’t already have, the cost will be added to your deposit.

    Outfit requests may be subject to additional fees.

  • Absolutely. Let me know what you’re looking for and I’ll find just the right person.


    Please do check in with me first before reaching out to others.

  • I do not require my title outside of scene unless we have an established ongoing dynamic, but I do love hearing you use it in public settings especially when it will make you blush a little.

    You may use Mistress, Ms. Belladonna, Ma’am, Mommy, Queen.

    Do not ever call me Goddess.

  • Definitely! I am passport ready and delight in travel to places new and familiar. I’m more than happy to come to your city or meet you elsewhere.

    I’m very easily coaxed into visiting my former home of New Orleans and may offer incentives for FMTY’s here. I will show you an unforgettable vacation in the Big Easy.

    You can also bring yourself to wherever I am.

    You can check out my Fly Me To You packages for more info. 

  • I do, even kinksters like to mix it up. You should expect that I will still bring some perverse, debauched energy to our date though.

  • Absolutely.

    I am a huge foodie and love bonding over an exquisite meal.

    Concerts, movies, cocktail bars, walking tours, sight seeing, burlesque, peloton classes, spa dates, and even longer travel adventures are all on the table. There are bountiful options if you’re visiting any of my stomping grounds (NYC, NOLA) and an even longer list elsewhere.

    The rates for social dates are the same as my hourly.

  • A positive attitude and your freshly shaven self, and be ready to shower upon arrival. Make sure to place the donation in an unmarked envelope, card, book, or gift in plain sight. If you’d like to bring something, this page has some insight on my tastes, and this website contains my up to date wishlist.. Gifts are never expected but always accepted.

    I love wine and am partial to whites. I love to round out my at home bar, feel free to bring your favorite unique spirit during our meeting. I’m partial to gin and specialty tequilas. I’m indifferent to whiskeys and bourbons, but curious to find one that commands my attention.

    If you’d like to bring non-alcoholic drinks, I love La Croix, fresh organic juice, matcha, chai, and non alcoholic spirits.

    Snack time? I love fresh fruit and nuts, pastries, and sweets of all kinds.

    Please note: I hate grapefruit. In all forms.

  • Yep.

  • I do! You can find out more about that here.

  • I do depending on the request. You may reach out via email to inquire.

  • Boy is it gonna cost ya. and is on a case by case basis.