All about zoey

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The Vanilla:

Men have always called me intimidating. I guess it’s something about the curves, the ink, the wit, a knowing gaze that sees through pretense. I’ve never seen myself this way but time and again female confidence proves itself a litmus test, quickly separating the men from the boys.

The men who are lucky enough to cross that threshold quickly discover I am as warm as I am sharp, as inviting as I am commanding.
As much as I get a kick out of making you blush, the real thrill is making you feel safe enough to give yourself to me.

I connect best over music, food, film, and sensory experiences that leave a lasting impression.
My music tastes are all over the place, and I mean it. I’m regularly listening to anything from jazz to obscure 80’s synth to Wu Tang to Taylor Swift to indie country to the Beach Boys. I am a huge music nerd.

My food palate is just as broad: Japanese, French, Korean, Ethiopian, and just about any seafood that demands to be eaten with bare hands.
I keep a running list of 400+ restaurants around the world. I’ve dined solo at multi-star Michelin counters and talked my way into after hours chefs tastings at hole in the wall pop-ups.

My approach to food is similar to how I approach kink.

“I’ve long believed that good food, good eating, is all about risk. Whether we’re talking about unpasteurized Stilton, raw oysters or working for organized crime ‘associates,’ food, for me, has always been an adventure” - Anthony Bourdain

My passions pull me toward movement and art in all its forms. I spend my time writing, volunteering, cooking, getting lost in art museums, dancing until dawn, competing against my own NYT Sunday crossword solve time, and jetting off on impulse for the right concert. I stay active, whether cycling, hiking, surfing, or simply meandering around a new neighborhood with my impossibly spry 14-year-old terrier.

Travel is my first love- traversing new ground and immersing myself in different cultures gets my blood flowing and creativity pumping, even more so when I'm with a gentleman who ignites that same passion within me.

I am an adventurer, in life and kink, and I want you on the journey with me.

The Not-So-Vanilla:

I am a proud Switch and above all else an Experimentalist. I want to suck the marrow out of life. I aim to try everything at least once, but maybe three times just to be sure.

I lean Dominant but enthusiastically enjoy the view from the bottom on occasion.

You’ll often find me in kinky skills workshops, refining technique with play partners, pushing boundaries, and sharpening my craft. I am deeply passionate about my work.

With the uninitiated, I am a guide. With the curious, I am a partner in indulgence. With the seasoned, I am a breath of fresh air. Creativity is my fuel, and I am rarely at a loss for new ways to play.

I get along well with bottoms, submissives, experimentalists, switches, the service oriented, and the kink-curious.
If you’re unsure where you fall in this spectrum, I highly recommend taking the BDSM Test— save your results, I’d love to hear about them when we meet!

(If you aren’t familiar with any of these terms, here’s a helpful glossary.)

A non-exhaustive list of my interests:

• Tease and Denial, Edging,

• Dirty Talk

• Strap-On Play, Strap-On Training

• Prostate Massage

• Slut Training

• Bondage

• Mommy Domme

• Exhibitionism

• Roleplay

• Cuckolding

• Latex

• Erotic Embarrassment, Humiliation, and Degradation

• Forced Bi, Bi Coaching, Coerced Bi

• CNC

• Foot Fetishes, High Heel Fetishes, Nylon Fetishes

• Queening

• Light CBT

• Milking

• Orgasm Control, Ruined Orgasms, Forced Orgasms,

• Chastity, Key Holding

• CEI

• Gender Play

• Light Electro - Tazapper, Violet Wand, Tens Units,

• Watersports
  
  Things I’d like to try more of:

• Sounding

• Encasement

• Breath Play

• Waterboarding, Water Breath Play, Water Bondage

• Public scenes

My areas of focus are never expectations of our time together. My interests are fluid and ever expanding. I’m happy to meet you where you’re at.

If you have an interest not on this list, you may respectfully reach out to inquire.