All about zoey

The Vanilla:

I have heard all my life how intimidating I look, my curves, wit, intelligence and tattoo’s make many men nervous to approach. Though I consider it an innate gift to be able to separate the boys from the men, it really couldn’t be further from the truth. Upon meeting me, people always remark on how down to earth and easy I am to confide in.
As much as I get a kick out of making you blush, the real thrill is making you feel safe enough to give yourself to me.

My favorite ways to connect are over music, food, and film.
I’m a goth at heart, but I love soul, psych and classic rock, house, and am an unrepentant Taylor Swift fan.
Japanese, French cuisine and any seafood make my heart sing. High end or hole in the wall. My approach to food is similar to how I approach kink.


“I’ve long believed that good food, good eating, is all about risk. Whether we’re talking about unpasteurized Stilton, raw oysters or working for organized crime ‘associates,’ food, for me, has always been an adventure” - Anthony Bourdain

My hobbies include: writing, volunteering, cooking, art shows, dancing until dawn, NYT Sunday crosswords, and flying just about anywhere for the right concert.
I love to stay active and am happiest cycling, hiking, surfing, or meandering with my surprisingly spry 12 year old terrier.

Travel is my first love- traversing new ground and immersing myself in different cultures gets my blood flowing and creativity pumping, even more so when I'm with a gentleman who ignites that same passion within me.

I am an adventurer, in life and kink, and I want you on the journey with me.

The Not-So-Vanilla:

I am a proud Switch and above all else an Experimentalist. I lean Dominant but enthusiastically enjoy the view from the bottom on occasion.

I get along well with bottoms, submissives, experimentalists, switches, the service oriented, and the kink-curious.
If you’re unsure where you fall in this spectrum, I highly recommend taking the BDSM Test— save your results, I’d love to hear about them when we meet!

(If you aren’t familiar with any of these terms, here’s a helpful glossary.)

I am an excited guide to the beginner, a spirited companion alongside the intermediate, and an inspired artist with seasoned players. I love what I do and I’m never stumped for creative ways to get depraved.

I am dedicated to learning more about my craft and am often found in a kinky skills class or practicing a new technique with a play partner.

A non-exhaustive list of my interests:

  • Tease and Denial, Edging,

  • Dirty Talk

  • Strap-On Play, Strap-On Training

  • Prostate Massage

  • Slut Training

  • Bondage

  • Mommy Domme

  • Exhibitionism

  • Roleplay

  • Cuckolding

  • Latex

  • Erotic Embarrassment, Humiliation, and Degradation

  • Forced Bi, Bi Coaching, Coerced Bi

  • CNC

  • Foot Fetishes, High Heel Fetishes, Nylon Fetishes

  • Queening

  • Light CBT

  • Milking

  • Orgasm Control, Ruined Orgasms, Forced Orgasms,

  • Chastity, Key Holding

  • CEI

  • Gender Play

  • Light Electro - Tazapper, Violet Wand, Tens Units,

  • Watersports

    Things I’d like to try more of:

  • Sounding

  • Encasement

  • Breath Play

  • Waterboarding, Water Breath Play, Water Bondage

  • Public scenes


My areas of focus are never expectations of our time together. My interests are fluid and ever expanding. I’m happy to meet you where you’re at.

If you have an interest not on this list, you may respectfully reach out to inquire. I’m a “try anything 3-4 times” kind of girl and I just might be down.