As a sensual dominatrix, and Mommy Domme, I have a wide range of tools at my disposal to help you explore your deepest desires and fantasies. Roleplays are one of my favorite ways to delve into your sensual psyche in the abstract. Pretending to be someone else can allow us to dig into the eros of emotional concepts and feelings without the walls that normally prevent us from doing so. One of my most beloved roleplays is playing Mommy. It is something that comes so naturally to me. Using my nurturing, sensual side to plunge you deeper into your submission and guiding you through the complexities of your desire.

Whether you’re a naughty boy who desperately needs to hear “No” or a good boy eager to be rewarded for your sacrifice, I enjoy all kinds of littles and different ways of being Mommy.

As a sensual dominatrix I'm used to being in control of my submissives bodies and minds, but being a Mommy Domme takes that to a whole new level. It allows for a more nuanced and complex power exchange that can be incredibly rewarding for both of us. Using the Mother archetype taps into a deep well of subconscious trust and intimacy, instantly putting you at ease, allowing you to let go and fully surrender to your desires.

Imagine: I'm holding you tight, pressed against my breasts, whispering what a good boy you are as I slowly prepare you for my strap on. Or perhaps I’m taking you over my knee with my hairbrush in hand to dish out your punishment for stealing my panties, there's an undeniable rush that comes with these taboo archetypes. There’s just something incredibly sensual about the mommy domme roleplay dynamic.

Recently I did a roleplay where I caught my little with a stash of my dirty panties in his laundry basket. I confront him about it and he says he sneaks into my room and steals them after my boyfriend leaves. He’s been hearing Mommy with her lover and wanted to know what it would be like. I put him on his knees and made him show me what he thinks Mommy does with her boyfriends. And then I punished him by showing him exactly what Mommy does with her boyfriends— by bending him over with my strap on. It was such a hot way for us to incorporate so many different kinks and stretch both of our creative muscles (among other things).

Something I love about taboo roleplays like the Mommy Domme experience is about how many ways you can approach it. You can choose to play with power, innocence, shame, corruption, punishment, praise, authority, gender, sweetness, and nurture. In my experience, Mommy is often the least important ingredient in the roleplay. It’s about what the “Mommy” archetype represents. Mommy Domme roleplay is a conduit for us to explore intimacy, vulnerability, power, taboo, and trust in a safe and sensual environment.

I have a survey that I send out to prospective submissives before we actually meet. I ask everyone I meet: “How would you like to feel when we’re together?”. That singular question has informed so much of how I view roleplays like this. A lot of people deeply misunderstand Big/little and ageplay dynamics. People conflate these desires with non-consent, or other kinds of real world harm. That is absolutely not what this is about and not even what is at the root of these kinks. Sometimes taboo roleplays are hot simply because they are taboo, there’s usually not a big psychological, subconscious reveal lurking underneath. Additionally, using archetypes and power dynamics like this can allow people to have their emotional-sexual needs met in a way that feels easier than the vulnerability required to say it out of a roleplay. Example: people want to feel safe, cared for, and wanted. Mommy represents all of these things- even a cruel, demented Mommy roleplay still invokes the subconscious archetype and can allow someone to feel safe enough to submit and explore.

Of course, a mommy domme roleplay isn't for everyone! This may not be what floats your boat and is not any sort of benchmark or requirement for our time together. It takes a certain level of trust and vulnerability to fully embrace this scenario, and not everyone is comfortable exploring their innermost desires in this way. But for those who are willing to take the plunge, the rewards can be incredible.

So if you're looking to explore your deepest desires in a safe, controlled environment, with Mommy’s guidance, experience, and a little bit of your trust, you might just discover a whole new side of yourself that you never knew existed.