Discussing what really turns us on? It can be a bit intimidating. The fear of rejection, the weight of societal judgments, and the vulnerability that comes with it – these factors often keep us from fully embracing our sexual desires.

Let's not forget how society puts pressure on men when it comes to their desires. The way our culture treats masculinity, it’s no surprise why men keep their kinky desires a secret. We expect men to be the ones on top, making the first moves and all the decisions, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Men enjoying submission or exploring their sexuality are seen as weak or emasculating. (It is my opinion, dear reader, that the most confident and masculine thing a man can do is fearlessly embrace their unconventional desires and let their freak flag fly, but you probably already knew that).

Women are expected to keep things interesting, but only to cater to the needs of the man, never actually taking the reins and exploring their own sexuality.

My goal is to carve out a space where we can break free from societal norms and gender expectations, enabling us to redefine pleasure and desire according to our own terms.

Speaking from my role as a femdom and Mommy Domme, there's something truly intriguing about roleplay – a wonderful technique to play around with power dynamics and delve into new kinks. The act of slipping into a completely different persona gives us the opportunity to experiment with things our everyday selves might shy away from. It's a way to be vulnerable, liberating us from shame and judgement.

Roleplay offers the gift of being completely present. In a world full of distractions, maintaining focus is a challenge. Yet, when we're in character, everything else seems to fade away. It's like stepping into another realm. We can’t ruminate about work or to-do lists because for this blip of time, we are a different person and our job is to stay in character and advance the plot.

And then there's the excitement of collaborating with a partner. The improvisation of roleplay is a great way to build chemistry and stimulate our creativity. When everything aligns, and you're both in sync, it's absolutely intoxicating and fulfilling. It will help you uncover kinks you never even knew existed.

Here are a few of my favorite roleplay topics:

• Mommy caught you (jerking off/watching/hiding her pantyhose. She’s not mad, she just wants to talk.)

• Boss/Coworker (I notice you staring at me instead of working and I’ve decided to make you really earn your paycheck.)

• Blackmail

• Pimping you out/Slut Training (You’re going to audition to be my slut for hire.)

• Cheerleader strap on gangbang (You're the only male cheerleader on the team. Or maybe you’re the dumb jock who needs to be put in his place.)

• Brat Bully/nerd (You do my homework…and whatever else I tell you.)

• Homewrecker/Cheating (This goes great with a side of blackmail.)

• Seducing the Priest/Pastor (Coercion, seduction, sin. Need I say more?)

What are your favorite roleplay ideas? Let’s collaborate and make something unforgettable.